From a few books,a retreat & conversations lately:
1) If you want a good Catholic wife/husband - pray for them 10minutes a day. Especially things you want them to have - ie, not to create this imaginary wonderful person in your mind, but to recognize things about yourself that you need & things from people you have dated that you like/don't.
* Therefore - Know YOurself. Look at yourself, your strengths, weaknesses & pray for yourself. Motivate yourself in that, if you are asking God to provide you with a good person with certain things...maybe you need to work on some things as well.
2) If you are ready to find your spouse - know that God will not leave you hanging. Trust in Him. For God did not let Adam loose in the Garden, but he created Eve for Adam, at the right time, when he saw that it was good. (This can be the hardest for all of us -waiting).
3) Where to find 'em? Attend Church things such as Young Adult functions, Mass, Lectures, Seminars, etc. What are things you like - join groups like Sports/running/soccer clubs, book clubs, go to places you like - parks, coffee shops, libraries, museums...etc!
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Im so fed up with men in general I for one dont mind waiting. :D
But these ARE good tips in the meantime!
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